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Reflections for a New Year by The Outdoor Counsellor

As one year turns into another, I find myself reflecting on how deeply my work as a therapist and my life on the farm continue to inform one another. Yintarini Farm is not just where I live or work – it is an active participant in my therapeutic practice, a place of relationship, learning, repair, and community.

I often describe nature as my co-therapist, but that relationship is not one-way. It is reciprocal. It asks something of me in return. It asks me to listen, to slow down, to give back, and to acknowledge the long history of care that existed on this land long before I arrived. At Yintarini Farm, this commitment is made tangible through our decision to Pay the Rent, recognising First Nations sovereignty and our shared responsibility to care for Country.

A year of growth on the farm

This year felt like one where many longer-term visions of a more regenerative way of living began to take clearer shape.

Eighteen months ago, we planted native trees in the front paddock. This year, I have watched them take hold, growing stronger, taller, and more resilient. These trees represent the beginning of our vision for a wildlife corridor, offering food and shelter for koalas, kangaroos and echidnas. Watching them grow has been a quiet but powerful reminder of what happens when we invest in futures we may never fully see.

Kelly, the therapy pig loves a scratch

We also completed the fencing of our new orchard and permaculture garden area – a milestone that has allowed us to intentionally work towards integrating animals, food production, and ecological care. Alongside this, new animals joined the farm to support both the practical work of land care and the therapeutic work that happens here.

Kelly, the pig arrived and is earning her place as both worker and gentle therapy presence. We welcomed more chickens to help care for the orchard, and two alpacas – Bluey and Charlie – who now guard our sheep with calm vigilance. The animals become teachers in their own right, particularly for children who struggle to communicate with words and instead connect through observation, touch, and shared rhythm.

This year also marked our first time welcoming HelpX farm helpers. Offering food and accommodation in exchange for help on the farm has been one of the unexpected joys of the year. I’ve loved welcoming curious, enthusiastic learners who want to understand how permaculture principles can be applied to life, and who are open to conversations about caring for Country through both ecological and First Nations perspectives. These relationships, built on respect and shared purpose, feel deeply aligned with how I understand healing.

Help X connections

Other highlights included:

  • undertaking a learning program focused on growing fruit trees
  • partnering with SBA’s Kitchen to host our first Paddock to Plate event, featuring our home-grown lamb
  • hosting our first ‘Soul Saturday’ for nurturing wellbeing
  • catching my first bee swarm (with generous mentorship from Adrion Iodice at Beekeeping Naturally) and watching our bees settle in – after a very creative start to their comb building
  • welcoming 12 new Wiltipoll lambs in our second year of breeding, including another bottle-fed baby, Jane, who formed close bonds with visiting child clients and HelpXer, Ying Ying
  • finally getting the slasher, rake, and haybaler all working at the same time to make our first bales off the paddock – a small miracle
  • completing an oyster mushroom course at Wattlebank Farm, beginning to grow shrooms at home, and later facilitating a mushroom workshop at Paddock to Plate
  • starting a produce swap at our local community garden – an idea I carried with me from Darwin – creating a simple but powerful way for people to share abundance
Paddock to Plate

Reflections from my therapeutic work

Alongside the farm, my work through my private practice – Metaphorically Speaking – has continued to grow in ways that feel aligned with my values.

In a voluntary capacity, I continued coordinating the Mental Health Professionals Network, alongside two colleagues, expanding connections between practitioners and strengthening professional community. I also continued to run Climate Cafés – a volunteer initiative offering people a safe, supported space to explore climate emotions such as grief, fear, anger, and helplessness.

Community connection remained central this year. I expanded my community offerings by holding space at the Sustainability Festival in Sale, inviting conversations about climate change and mental wellbeing. My plot at the Seed Community Garden continued to produce herbs for mental health and wellbeing, which I share with my clientele as part of a broader practice of care.

I also expanded my walk and talk therapy offerings to include Sale Common and the Wetlands – places that allow for both movement and stillness, and for conversations that unfold more gently side-by-side.

‘Soul Saturday’ self care workshop

Giving back remains a core part of how I practise. This year, I donated $888 to ReForest Now – one dollar from every counselling and supervision session. Alongside our Paying the Rent commitment, this initiative reflects my belief that decolonising social work practice includes actively supporting ecological repair.

A personal highlight was attending the Outdoor Health Forum in Lennox Head, where I presented on my work with a client exploring the mental health benefits of gardening in his pursuit of justice. It felt affirming to share how deeply outdoor, relational approaches can support wellbeing.

Looking ahead to 2026

As I look toward 2026, I feel a sense of grounded optimism.

Yintarini Farm will be launching a Year of Sustainable Living, offering more opportunities for the community to participate in workshops across gardening, cooking, art and crafts, and wellbeing. These offerings are about skills, of course – but also about relationship, confidence, and collective care.

In my therapy work, I will be:

  • incorporating new animals, including the pig, chickens, and guinea pigs, into sessions with children, particularly those who find verbal expression difficult
  • developing an NDIS group program for high-school-aged young people, drawing on horticulture therapy, nature-based therapy, and animal-assisted approaches
  • co-designing this program with young people themselves (the way I’ve always done things!) so it reflects their interests, needs, and ways of learning
  • running Recipes of Life, a mental health initiative funded through a grant at Seed Community Garden – bringing together people from diverse cultural backgrounds to share food, recipes, culture, and stories as a way of reducing isolation.

Healing people, healing planet

On a more personal note, one of my highlights this year was walking sections of the Great Ocean Walk in April with a gathering of my Darwin friends – a reminder of the importance of friendship, movement, and shared experience. I made some spanking brand new amazing friendships, in a move that feels like I’m finally finding my tribe in this community. I also participated in my first Challenge for Climate, committing to ten new actions to live more lightly on the earth.

I hold a strong belief that healing the planet and healing ourselves go hand in hand. We cannot do one without the other.

As I enter this new year, I remain committed to offering therapeutic spaces that are relational, grounded, and connected to place – spaces where people, land, animals, and stories are all honoured.

Thank you to everyone who has walked alongside me this year – on the farm, in sessions, at events, and in community. I look forward to what the next season brings.

tree planting with reforest now

We’ve planted 147 trees this year, but is it enough?

If sustainability is a core value of yours, like it is for me, I wonder if you get to this time of year and think ‘what difference have I made in the world?’ 

Sometimes it’s difficult to quantify the little actions you may have taken to make the world a better place – those small conversations you had with someone who was feeling down, those little bits of plastic you picked up off the beach or the times you chose to walk, ride a bike or carpool instead of using your car.

I’ve been listening to ‘Wild’, Sarah Wilson’s podcast, for a while now and there is always something thought provoking in its content.  One of the strongest themes I’ve picked up in her interviews and newsletters is the idea of not letting the big fossil fuel companies off the hook for the damage they have caused the planet; and not falling for their propaganda that we, as consumers, are the problem and therefore every one of us should work harder to lower our carbon footprint. 

This is a difficult issue to wrestle with.  On one hand I do feel that my small daily actions can make a big difference.  When they go alongside other individuals taking actions too, big changes are achievable.  And let’s face it, big change is needed if we’re going to get through the climate crisis.  Yet, the individual carbon footprint argument has been pushed hard on us; this can feel like a lot of pressure and contribute to guilt and shame if you don’t do the right thing. 

It’s complicated.  But the reality is that the fossil fuel companies have been pushing their agenda for a long time, and they don’t have ours or the planet’s interests at heart.  Seth Godin goes so far as to argue that we should ditch the small activism and target the bigger players.  Did you know that one hour of using a gas-powered leaf blower is equivalent to driving your car over 4800 kilometres?  In Godin’s town, it took just 20 people putting pressure on council to have leaf blowers banned.  Anyway, I encourage you to check out his ‘outside the box’ ideas in this interview with Sarah.

Some of the trees we’ve helped plant this year. Photo: Reforest Now

I know that I am guilty of putting more effort into individual action than lobbying governments about bigger impact policy change.  Here’s a good example that supports Godin’s argument.  One of the new things I started in 2022 was funding tree planting by Reforest Now, to regenerate the ‘big scrub’ in Northern NSW.  We have been donating $1 from each counselling session to the project and so our total donation of $734 is equivalent to an extra 147 rainforest trees planted.  Yes, it’s a tiny contribution on the scale of things, but that feels like a reasonable carbon offset for little old me.  And if we all did that, it would make a difference, right?  Only problem is there is only so many trees we can plant.  We also need to stop cutting down the forests we already have, stop pulling fossil fuels out of the ground and regenerate our depleted soils, if humans are to come off the ‘heading for extension’ list.  That requires collective effort and protest.  If you need further inspiration, check out the documentary, ‘Franklin’.

By all means, don’t stop what you’re doing.  I’m not going to stop funding tree planting.  The actions you’re taking right now do inspire and encourage others.  But my challenge to you is to think about how you can get involved politically, to take things to the next level?  It’s something I need to also do if I am going to live out the values of a truly sustainable life.

References:

Sarah Wilson’s ‘Wild’ podcast
Reforest Now